So it has been a while since I appeared here! well, it has been kinda drab and boring, well, until today!! I was doing the maternity theatre shift today, it was exciting as always....well save for me starting my list at midday and doing only two cases instead of the seven lists that were waiting for me, well my friends, that is a story for another day!
My colleague was operating on a young lady, well about 27 years of age. She was thirty six weeks and carrying triplets! Yeah, I know most of you are now saying wow, so sweet, so lucky....TRIPLETS! SIGH! And this was her first pregnancy! Wow! So my colleague delivered one, then two and finally the last one, ALL BOYS! Big, pink, feisty, hungry BOYS! And for her to have managed to reach 36 weeks with triplets was quite an amazing feat, yeah you can imagine all of us were just marvelling...well until we got wind of her social history.
It so happens, that this young lady is single, living at her mothers house, hopefully she has a steady job. As soon as her Baby daddy(Of triplets) found out that she was pregnant, he upped and left! never to be seen or heard of again.Now this young mother (of three) is left to raise her three boys all alone, thankfully with the help of her mother. I have a son, he put me through hell and I mean, real trouble...he could suck me dry and he was alone, I can only imagine what three little hungry boys will be up to! She will probably have to employ two nannies at the very least, feed herself like crazy to provide milk for the boys and well well well, I can't even imagine what kind of mischief these little ones will be up to once they start walking and taking....so adorable!
But today, I only ask myself one question....how does this man feel? Does he know he is a father to three really sweet and feisty little boys? Does he really want them to grow up never knowing their father? Does he sit with his fellow men and act like a man knowing he abandoned three little, cute, sorry, handsome, but so adorable little boys to a life of not having a daddy? Does he feel any guilt? Any shame?
But for all those men out there who have sown their seed wild or otherwise and let the Hapless mother tend to the garden and reap the harvest all on her own and walked away, without a care, without a second thought and without the balls to Man up and take care of your progeny, SHAME ON YOU! And to use the words of Steve Jobs, you are just Fucking Dickless Assholes!
My colleague was operating on a young lady, well about 27 years of age. She was thirty six weeks and carrying triplets! Yeah, I know most of you are now saying wow, so sweet, so lucky....TRIPLETS! SIGH! And this was her first pregnancy! Wow! So my colleague delivered one, then two and finally the last one, ALL BOYS! Big, pink, feisty, hungry BOYS! And for her to have managed to reach 36 weeks with triplets was quite an amazing feat, yeah you can imagine all of us were just marvelling...well until we got wind of her social history.
It so happens, that this young lady is single, living at her mothers house, hopefully she has a steady job. As soon as her Baby daddy(Of triplets) found out that she was pregnant, he upped and left! never to be seen or heard of again.Now this young mother (of three) is left to raise her three boys all alone, thankfully with the help of her mother. I have a son, he put me through hell and I mean, real trouble...he could suck me dry and he was alone, I can only imagine what three little hungry boys will be up to! She will probably have to employ two nannies at the very least, feed herself like crazy to provide milk for the boys and well well well, I can't even imagine what kind of mischief these little ones will be up to once they start walking and taking....so adorable!
But today, I only ask myself one question....how does this man feel? Does he know he is a father to three really sweet and feisty little boys? Does he really want them to grow up never knowing their father? Does he sit with his fellow men and act like a man knowing he abandoned three little, cute, sorry, handsome, but so adorable little boys to a life of not having a daddy? Does he feel any guilt? Any shame?
But for all those men out there who have sown their seed wild or otherwise and let the Hapless mother tend to the garden and reap the harvest all on her own and walked away, without a care, without a second thought and without the balls to Man up and take care of your progeny, SHAME ON YOU! And to use the words of Steve Jobs, you are just Fucking Dickless Assholes!
he he he... to the last part of the paragraph..and that is nicely though
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