Wednesday 25 January 2012

OF BLOOD........loads of it!

So did I say I was doing what I do best and with a smile....? It ended on a very low note.... So this patient comes in, a referral from one of the sub district hospitals around which I personally think should be shut down and the keys thrown in the ocean. Woman had delivered well, to a bouncing baby boy then she developed severe post partum hemorrhage...(bleeding following delivery). We received her in labour ward and for like two hours she had a bevy of doctors doing this and that for her....fixing IV lines, drawing blood, examining her, writing notes you name it! Despite all our efforts, the bleeding persisted And we rushed her to theatre to remove her uterus, that really is the last resort in such situations. We talked to her husband, explained the whole situation to him and told him that we needed to do that operation and since she was not coherent enough, he had to give us the consent. Poor dude was so lost and confused in that moment he consulted the patients sister, I guess just for reassurance. He eventually signed the consent.


I got to scrub in with one of the greatest OBGYN consultants in this part of the world, and oh my, does he have a wealth of knowledge and he is so humble, down to earth and also quite humorous. His dexterity is also unmatched. So we do a sub total hysterectomy in like thirty minutes and we close the patient. When I was closing the skin blood was now bright red and we were all quite pleased.

One hour later, all hell decides to break loose. Our patient goes into shock all over again, on further examination, she was very pale. Conclusion, our patient had initially lost so much blood that all the factors that assist in clotting had disappeared. Se was in a state called DIC(most docs call this, Death Is Coming but medically speaking it stands for disseminated intravascular coagulopathy). My consultant is called back, patient is rushed back to theatre a second time, but she codes on the table.

My patient, at some point before we operated on her, she talked to her sister, she even talked to the anaesthetist and she was actually telling him to take heart, God is in control. I can't even begin to imagine how we break the news to her husband, to her sister, to the son she will never get to know....... <SIGH>

Monday 23 January 2012

OF TRIPLETS!!!!

So it has been a while since I appeared here! well, it has been kinda drab and boring, well, until today!! I was doing the maternity theatre shift today, it was exciting as always....well save for me starting my list at midday and doing only two cases instead of the seven lists that were waiting for me, well my friends, that is a story for another day!
My colleague was operating on a young lady, well about 27 years of age. She was thirty six weeks and carrying triplets! Yeah, I know most of you are now saying wow, so sweet, so lucky....TRIPLETS! SIGH! And this was her first pregnancy! Wow! So my colleague delivered one, then two and finally the last one, ALL BOYS! Big, pink, feisty, hungry BOYS! And for her to have managed to reach 36 weeks with triplets was quite an amazing feat, yeah you can imagine all of us were just marvelling...well until we got wind of her social history.

It so happens, that this young lady is single, living at her mothers house, hopefully she has a steady job. As soon as her Baby daddy(Of triplets) found out that she was pregnant, he upped and left! never to be seen or heard of again.Now this young mother (of three) is left to raise her three boys all alone, thankfully with the help of her mother. I have a son, he put me through hell and I mean, real trouble...he could suck me dry and he was alone, I can only imagine what three little hungry boys will be up to! She will probably have to employ two nannies at the very least, feed herself like crazy to provide milk for the boys and well well well, I can't even imagine what kind of mischief these little ones will be up to once they start walking and taking....so adorable!

But today, I only ask myself one question....how does this man feel? Does he know he is a father to three really sweet and feisty little boys? Does he really want them to grow up never knowing their father? Does he sit with his fellow men and act like a man knowing he abandoned three little, cute, sorry, handsome, but so adorable little boys to a life of not having a daddy? Does he feel any guilt? Any shame? 

But for all those men out there who have sown their seed wild or otherwise and let the Hapless mother tend to the garden and reap the harvest all on her own and walked away, without a care, without a second thought and without the balls to Man up and take care of your progeny, SHAME ON YOU! And to use the words of Steve Jobs, you are just Fucking Dickless Assholes!